Primary fantasy is enforced male chastity, so most posts will include that in some way. (A description of Chastity Beach is first post!) If you see something of yours that you would like me to remove, please say so in notes or message. This blog is just a way for me (and you, if you like it!) to get my sexual kicks, so I'm only intending to entertain you wankers! Yes, at one point, I had a blog on Tumblr, but they kicked me for copyright violation, so PLEASE msg me if I post something I need to remove for that reason! Enjoy!
Every week, we chat with our members so we can dive deeper into their unique desires, experiences, and insights. BDSMLR isn’t just a platform; we strive to be a community. We want to highlight the stories and perspectives that each of you brings to the table.
This month, as we go deep into Locktober, we’re excited to share with you the conversations we’ve had with a real-life couple, Ms. Lena B. and Heelfan, as they share how chastity has made them even closer.
Tell us about yourself/yourselves.
Heelfan and I are a real, non-married couple from the northeastern United States. We both have professional careers in the business world and consider ourselves hobbyists at making the content that we love to share here on BDSMLR.
When did you first realize you were interested in chastity and cages? And what was the realization experience like for you?
Heelfan introduced me to a chastity cage within the first three weeks we were dating. He had some previous experience with chastity. I immediately fell in love with the idea of being his keyholder and having him lock for me. It’s been over two years and I’m still in love with chastity. We feel deeply that chastity gives us a way to remain connected when we cannot physically be together.
The realization experience was incredible for me personally. It is completely invigorating to have someone you adore trust you so much that he hands over complete control of all his pleasure to you. What could be more momentous in a relationship between two kinksters? With this realization, I instantly got Heelfan a custom sized steel cage so he can wear it for much longer durations and he got me a decorated key that I can wear everywhere. This has made chastity part of everyday normal life.
Is there a particular experience that stands out for you? Can you share it with us?
Yes, about seven months into our relationship we were invited to a high protocol dinner with other D/S couples. At this party, I introduced the other guests to chastity in Heelfan’s presence. The other doms/dommes were all extremely curious and had tons of questions about it. Given the rules of a high protocol dinner, subs are not allowed to speak unless directed to do so by their dom/domme. This meant Heelfan had to listen to me talk all about his cage and chastity without being able to join the conversation. I think this was the biggest turning point for us as he could hear my eagerness to share information and how much I truly love chastity. Later in the evening, when it was our turn for show and tell, I had Heelfan model his cage so all the guests could see it, touch it and play with it. I think everyone agreed with me about how cute he looks locked up tight! To this day we both still talk about how amazing it felt to be seen by others for our true selves, a keyholder and a chastity boy.
The following October after the dinner party was our first Locktober. After experiencing Locktober just once, we realized we can take chastity much further.
What advice or insights for individuals new or curious about chastity?
I have different advice for potential new cage wearers versus potential new keyholders.
For potential new cage wearers:
First, fit is everything! Don’t go too big or it will be as uncomfortable as one that is too small. There are very detailed directions online about how to measure yourself for a cage and I strongly suggest following these directions carefully. Or even better, have your partner measure you! It will be much easier to acclimate yourself to a cage that is the sized right.
Second, if you are new to chastity, be realistic in the beginning with how long you stay caged. Start off by wearing the cage for short amounts of time and increase the duration each time you put the cage back on. If you start slow, you’ll soon find yourself craving to be locked.
I also think it is important to find a keyholder. It will be much easier to lock for someone and the keyholder should hold you accountable.
For potential new keyholders:
The biggest thing I would tell people new or curious about being a keyholder is that chastity is not a punishment, it’s a gift. Someone has given you control of their pleasure, don’t take that for granted. Cherish it.
I also feel there is absolutely no denial without the tease. So in other words, be sure to tease them relentlessly, both physically and verbally. The physical teasing is more obvious but I also love reminding Heelfan of his predicament and sending him sexy photos of myself wearing the key.
How did you get started creating adult content?
It all started with me wearing a latex dress and a fabulous pair of 5 inch stilettos! I wore this one night just because I thought it was sexy and Heelfan insisted on taking some photos. He started off by just snapping a bunch of random photos during our playtime. When we reviewed them, he insisted I start posting them on BDMSLR. To this day, this is still how we make all of our content!
What has been the most rewarding part of this work so far?
Since we are making content for pure fun just during our regular play time, the biggest reward has been seeing all the positive reactions and feedback from BDSMLRers. We receive the nicest notes and comments from our followers and it just makes us want to share more.
What has been the most challenging thing you have faced in this industry and how do you overcome this?
Since we are not in the industry yet, we haven’t really had to overcome any difficult challenges but suspect keeping our privacy will be the hardest and most critical part.
What advice do you have for newcomers who want to make successful adult content?
My biggest piece of advice would be to create content that you like. Start off by taking a ton of pictures and videos during your favorite playtimes. When you look through them, see what turns you on the most. That is how we make content and I think it helps us stay true to ourselves.
What advice do you have for newcomers who want to make successful adult content?
My biggest piece of advice would be to create content that you like. Start off by taking a ton of pictures and videos during your favorite playtimes. When you look through them, see what turns you on the most. That is how we make content and I think it helps us stay true to ourselves.
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Every week, we chat with our members so we can dive deeper into their unique desires, experiences, and insights. BDSMLR isn’t just a platform; we strive to be a community. We want to highlight the stories and perspectives that each of you brings to the table.
This month, as we go deep into Locktober, we’re excited to share with you the conversations we’ve had with a real-life couple, Ms. Lena B. and Heelfan, as they share how chastity has made them even closer.
Tell us about yourself/yourselves.
Heelfan and I are a real, non-married couple from the northeastern United States. We both have professional careers in the business world and consider ourselves hobbyists at making the content that we love to share here on BDSMLR.
When did you first realize you were interested in chastity and cages? And what was the realization experience like for you?
Heelfan introduced me to a chastity cage within the first three weeks we were dating. He had some previous experience with chastity. I immediately fell in love with the idea of being his keyholder and having him lock for me. It’s been over two years and I’m still in love with chastity. We feel deeply that chastity gives us a way to remain connected when we cannot physically be together.
The realization experience was incredible for me personally. It is completely invigorating to have someone you adore trust you so much that he hands over complete control of all his pleasure to you. What could be more momentous in a relationship between two kinksters? With this realization, I instantly got Heelfan a custom sized steel cage so he can wear it for much longer durations and he got me a decorated key that I can wear everywhere. This has made chastity part of everyday normal life.
Is there a particular experience that stands out for you? Can you share it with us?
Yes, about seven months into our relationship we were invited to a high protocol dinner with other D/S couples. At this party, I introduced the other guests to chastity in Heelfan’s presence. The other doms/dommes were all extremely curious and had tons of questions about it. Given the rules of a high protocol dinner, subs are not allowed to speak unless directed to do so by their dom/domme. This meant Heelfan had to listen to me talk all about his cage and chastity without being able to join the conversation. I think this was the biggest turning point for us as he could hear my eagerness to share information and how much I truly love chastity. Later in the evening, when it was our turn for show and tell, I had Heelfan model his cage so all the guests could see it, touch it and play with it. I think everyone agreed with me about how cute he looks locked up tight! To this day we both still talk about how amazing it felt to be seen by others for our true selves, a keyholder and a chastity boy.
The following October after the dinner party was our first Locktober. After experiencing Locktober just once, we realized we can take chastity much further.
What advice or insights for individuals new or curious about chastity?
I have different advice for potential new cage wearers versus potential new keyholders.
For potential new cage wearers:
First, fit is everything! Don’t go too big or it will be as uncomfortable as one that is too small. There are very detailed directions online about how to measure yourself for a cage and I strongly suggest following these directions carefully. Or even better, have your partner measure you! It will be much easier to acclimate yourself to a cage that is the sized right.
Second, if you are new to chastity, be realistic in the beginning with how long you stay caged. Start off by wearing the cage for short amounts of time and increase the duration each time you put the cage back on. If you start slow, you’ll soon find yourself craving to be locked.
I also think it is important to find a keyholder. It will be much easier to lock for someone and the keyholder should hold you accountable.
For potential new keyholders:
The biggest thing I would tell people new or curious about being a keyholder is that chastity is not a punishment, it’s a gift. Someone has given you control of their pleasure, don’t take that for granted. Cherish it.
I also feel there is absolutely no denial without the tease. So in other words, be sure to tease them relentlessly, both physically and verbally. The physical teasing is more obvious but I also love reminding Heelfan of his predicament and sending him sexy photos of myself wearing the key.
How did you get started creating adult content?
It all started with me wearing a latex dress and a fabulous pair of 5 inch stilettos! I wore this one night just because I thought it was sexy and Heelfan insisted on taking some photos. He started off by just snapping a bunch of random photos during our playtime. When we reviewed them, he insisted I start posting them on BDMSLR. To this day, this is still how we make all of our content!
What has been the most rewarding part of this work so far?
Since we are making content for pure fun just during our regular play time, the biggest reward has been seeing all the positive reactions and feedback from BDSMLRers. We receive the nicest notes and comments from our followers and it just makes us want to share more.
What has been the most challenging thing you have faced in this industry and how do you overcome this?
Since we are not in the industry yet, we haven’t really had to overcome any difficult challenges but suspect keeping our privacy will be the hardest and most critical part.
What advice do you have for newcomers who want to make successful adult content?
My biggest piece of advice would be to create content that you like. Start off by taking a ton of pictures and videos during your favorite playtimes. When you look through them, see what turns you on the most. That is how we make content and I think it helps us stay true to ourselves.
What advice do you have for newcomers who want to make successful adult content?
My biggest piece of advice would be to create content that you like. Start off by taking a ton of pictures and videos during your favorite playtimes. When you look through them, see what turns you on the most. That is how we make content and I think it helps us stay true to ourselves.
